I often hear dreams
from adults that sound like the products of a child's imagination. One dreamer
is menaced by giants. She runs but can't get away - until Superman swoops down
to rescue her. Another dreamer is entertained by a strange composite animal, a
cross between a jolly pink pig and a hairless dog, with a strip of carpet
instead of a tail.
In such dreams, buildings
and people around the dreamer often seem vastly larger than in regular life, as
adults and cities might appear from the perspective of a young child. At the
same time, the dreamer may find she has the ability to make herself greatly
bigger or smaller, like Alice with the "Drink Me" bottles.
I wonder whether such child-like dreams really are the dreams of the child within the dreamer. They may be returning memories of dreams in early life. They may also be a direct link to the inner child, providing a chance to bring more of her energy, joy and imagination into current life. They may even be a bridge to connect with the child in her Now time, which is past history for the adult except when released from the constraints of linear time, as in dreaming.
I have given happy examples thus far, but the dreams of the child may of course be filled with challenge and drenched in fear. Those menacing giants may represent abusive adults and authority figures the child can't handle, and Superman is not always available. Yet when the bridge to the child in her own Now time is open, we can slip across it, to offer support and mentoring that may be desperately needed. We can help to provide the heroes our child selves want to be dreaming of.
I wonder whether such child-like dreams really are the dreams of the child within the dreamer. They may be returning memories of dreams in early life. They may also be a direct link to the inner child, providing a chance to bring more of her energy, joy and imagination into current life. They may even be a bridge to connect with the child in her Now time, which is past history for the adult except when released from the constraints of linear time, as in dreaming.
I have given happy examples thus far, but the dreams of the child may of course be filled with challenge and drenched in fear. Those menacing giants may represent abusive adults and authority figures the child can't handle, and Superman is not always available. Yet when the bridge to the child in her own Now time is open, we can slip across it, to offer support and mentoring that may be desperately needed. We can help to provide the heroes our child selves want to be dreaming of.
I know this: we can
travel across time, and we can play mentor and counselor to a younger self, or
receive help and guidance from a wiser older self. At the very least, when we
reach to that younger self, we can offer the assurance that however much he is
suffering, he or she will make it through.
We dream dreams of the child, and the child dreams of us.
We dream dreams of the child, and the child dreams of us.
Art: "Jumping Rope" by A.E. (George Russell)
Dream play with our inner child.
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